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Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Thu May 13, 2021 3:45 pm
by meganfernandez
dryrunguy wrote: Thu May 13, 2021 2:34 am This was a horrible night.

It started around 7 p.m. when the next door neighbors, both 79 years old, showed up. They wanted to know if we had electricity. We had music playing in the garage, lights on, etc.

I remembered what happened the last time when we lost electricity, when our neighbors did not. Something had gone wrong with one of the telephone poles in my pasture field. I asked if they had called the electric company. They had not. I asked if their cell phones were working. They said they no longer had cell phones.

I agreed to call the electric company on their behalf to see if we could get something done. The neighbors went back home.

I called the electric company (same provider as mine). Since I was calling on behalf of someone else's account, the electric company could not tell me much. But they were able to tell me that the electricity to my neighbors' home had been cut off.

Now I've got it.

I go over to the neighbors' house with an 800 number to inform them why they had no electricity. I find the electricity disconnection notice hanging on the front door. I walk in, go upstairs, and what I see is a mix of squalor and a mild episode of Hoarders. I delicately explain the situation.

From there, the discussion devolved into someone has hacked our bank account/we should have money in the bank/we can't find our checkbook/we're afraid of losing our house/we're planning to spend $5000 to have the swimming pool cleaned and fixed. Needless to say, I was a bit lost.

But we spent more than an hour on my phone with the electric company, managed to find their checking account number and routing number (which may or MAY NOT have money in it), and got their electricity restored about 90 minutes later--around 9:30 p.m.. My guess is that they hadn't paid their electric bill in about 5 or 6 months.

I invited them over for dinner, since it was so late, but they said they'd go to Burger King to get chicken nuggets, which is about 40 miles away. I haven't seen them leave.

It was one of the most depressing experiences I've had in quite a while. I cannot stop thinking about it.

Aging sucks. And there's only so much I can do to help from here on out, which should actually be the responsibility of their good-for-nothing, useless children and grandchildren--who are nowhere to be found except during the summer when they want to use that all-important swimming pool.

Thanks for listening, so to speak. Sigh...
So sorry, Dry. You did what you could do and should have done - well, above and beyond, actually. You aren't responsible for their lives, and for all we know, they are happy driving 40 minutes for chicken nuggets. It's hard to believe living in squalor wouldn't bother them, but who knows.

Aging can really suck and people don't talk about it enough. By the same token, society sends the wrong signals to people as they age that hastens their deterioration.

It wouldn't hurt to check in on them now and then and ask if they need any certain services... But you aren't their safety net.

Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Thu May 13, 2021 6:12 pm
by ti-amie
Are there social services available in your area, organizations that could possibly step in and see what can be done? The lie they told you about driving to get chicken nuggets speaks volumes. Thank goodness you're their neighbor.

Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Fri May 14, 2021 12:09 am
by Ribbons
UGH. You're a mensch, dry.

Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Fri May 14, 2021 1:05 am
by Deuce
On ageing...

Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Fri May 14, 2021 8:41 am
by skatingfan
I like the poem, but the story that accompanies it is a hoax.

https://www.hoax-slayer.net/cranky-old-man-poem/

Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Fri May 14, 2021 9:18 am
by Deuce
skatingfan wrote: Fri May 14, 2021 8:41 am I like the poem, but the story that accompanies it is a hoax.
Yeah - maybe... or probably - whatever. But who cares?

I used to be like that - trying to 'prove' absolute truth, uncover 'hoaxes', etc. (though not to this extent) - but I eventually realized that when no harm is done, it doesn't matter. I don't seek to 'prove' anything anymore - unless harm is being done.
I prefer to simply let things be - if people want to believe something harmless because it makes them feel good, or brings them comfort, that's fine. It's even good.
Or if people wish to make up their own narrative - to something like this poem - and perhaps personalize the meaning to some degree to something relating to their own life - that's fine - and good -, as well.

I like the poem, regardless of its origin - because its origin is completely irrelevant. Each individual can create his/her own origin.

I don't see any positive point in being the person who proudly yells "A-Ha!" and uncovers a harmless story which makes people feel good as not being completely factual.

I hope that some people can still get something positive from the touching poem, despite your needless 'A-ha!' declaration.

Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Mon May 17, 2021 9:50 pm
by Suliso
Did you know that words insect and sex have the same origin?

Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Mon May 17, 2021 9:56 pm
by ponchi101
I am waiting for the punchline...

Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Sun May 23, 2021 8:40 pm
by ti-amie

Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Mon May 24, 2021 8:03 pm
by ti-amie
I put this here because it could easily be a SNL cold opening skit today.


Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Wed May 26, 2021 4:32 am
by Deuce
This is about as 'Random, Random' as it gets...

Pencil this in as the Bizarre Death of the Year right now...

https://ca.news.yahoo.com/police-found- ... 13595.html

(I've long said that human dependence upon technology is dangerous - but I never thought it would go to this extreme. :shock: )

Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Wed May 26, 2021 12:28 pm
by MJ2004
Many deaths have been directly related to iPhones. Usually people stepping off a cliff while taking a selfie. But a fair many also due to people reaching into dangerous situations for dropped phones.

Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Wed May 26, 2021 8:42 pm
by Deuce
MJ2004 wrote: Wed May 26, 2021 12:28 pm Many deaths have been directly related to iPhones. Usually people stepping off a cliff while taking a selfie. But a fair many also due to people reaching into dangerous situations for dropped phones.
Yes, but... a dinosaur statue?

This has got to be the first killing by a dinosaur in several (million) years...

Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Wed May 26, 2021 10:08 pm
by Drop-shot
A porn movie was played on a TV at the waiting room of a French hospital for 20' before someone realized what was going on.

art (spa) https://www.lacapital.com.ar/informacio ... 63401.html


I hadn't realized that Belslus had ventured into the health system.

Re: Random, Random 2.0

Posted: Thu May 27, 2021 12:13 am
by dmforever
Drop-shot wrote: Wed May 26, 2021 10:08 pm A porn movie was played on a TV at the waiting room of a French hospital for 20' before someone realized what was going on.

art (spa) https://www.lacapital.com.ar/informacio ... 63401.html


I hadn't realized that Belslus had ventured into the health system.
It went on for 20 minutes. And when the guy took a video of the waiting room, no one was even watching it.
How does that even happen??

Kevin