I believe some of you are confusing your personal experience with the cell phone with the overall effect of the cell phone on individuals, and, as such, on society as a whole.
To see this, one must look beyond the mere pretty surface to the deeper reality.
Comfort and convenience come with a price. Often, the negative consequences are disguised - it is all designed to fool people, of course, knowing that the great majority rarely look beyond the mere surface of things. Reality is thus being manipulated... much like beer commercials which show only the ‘positive’ effects of alcohol while completely ignoring the fact that it breaks up families, injures and kills many people in car crashes, etc., etc.
Having a powerful computer on your person 24 hours a day has resulted in the inevitable abuse of said apparatus by the great majority of persons...
Children and adults alike interact personally much less because of it...
As such, personal relationships have suffered greatly - because typical ‘communication’ between persons has been reduced to mostly one or two sentence text messages, interpersonal relationships are much more superficial, much less personal, and contain much less substance, than pre-cell phone...
Children of all ages play outside much less...
Having unlimited access to ‘social media’ and all of the negatives which inherently accompany it has resulted in more feelings of inadequacy, more depression, and more suicides...
Cell phones magnify and perpetuate personal insecurity in several different ways (think 'selfies', for one)...
The constant pressure of being always available is not healthy - the majority of people are completely lost and devastated without their cell phone today, which creates a constant anxiety...
The ubiquitous presence of the cell phone has re-wired people’s brains to, among other negative things, not only expect, but to DEMAND instant gratification, and where things are done as quickly and as conveniently as possible, rather than being done properly...
Of course, people who have lived a good portion of their adult lives prior to everyone having a cell phone are much more qualified to compare the before and after, and, as such, are more qualified to speak on the positives and negatives of the cell phone, than are those who grew up with the cell phone in childhood, adolescence, or early adulthood, as the former people have directly seen and lived through both eras.
In the end, it is well known that any dependence - or, if you will, addiction - as is the case with people and their cell phones, is very unhealthy both psychologically and emotionally.
For those who wish to truly contemplate the matter indepth - rather than merely clinging to comfortable, pretty, and incomplete illusions -, I offer this...
https://sites.psu.edu/rclcummings/2017/ ... 0activity.
...and this...
https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/ar ... on/534198/
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