Re: The Tennis Coaching Merry Go Round
Posted: Thu Jan 02, 2025 2:43 pm
You'll remember Shriver is talking as a survivor of coach abuse.
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You'll remember Shriver is talking as a survivor of coach abuse.
I think she's essentially saying that if there's evidence misconduct has been committed, it should be investigated regardless of whether the victim of misconduct is officially asking to pursue it or not. I personally don't this infringes on the rights of women or victims but I get your point.ponchi101 wrote: ↑Thu Jan 02, 2025 5:25 pm Yes. But let's also remember that Elena has never accused this guy of any abuse. And, we either accept her decision as made by a responsible adult, or we then decide that she is not capable of such decisions and therefore none of the women in the WTA would be, because they are all the same cadre of people.
Shriver is perilously close to law suit territory. I think.
Well, Pam does have a much higher level of access and likely long term relationships inside the WTA that she's been a part of for 50 years than we do. Much of me wants to just say "forget Elena while she's with him" as I much want her safety is assured working with him. I don't know him, but I also don't trust him. It's ultimately up to her and the people around her, good luck Elena.ponchi101 wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 2:50 pm Serious here, not trying to discount your point.
Why would we assume Shriver knows more than the rest of the general public? She is a commentator, not a journalist, and, as I have said before, the fact that she has claimed she was also subject to abuse cuts both ways. She may be tuned to spotting these events, or she sees them now everywhere, because of trauma.
It is not a trivial accusation, to say the least. And it is something that could affect Vukov's future job possibilities, permanently.
Shriver is also a coach now as well, and I imagine as a former player who is well-liked that she has access that many do not to insider talk.ponchi101 wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 2:50 pm Serious here, not trying to discount your point.
Why would we assume Shriver knows more than the rest of the general public? She is a commentator, not a journalist, and, as I have said before, the fact that she has claimed she was also subject to abuse cuts both ways. She may be tuned to spotting these events, or she sees them now everywhere, because of trauma.
It is not a trivial accusation, to say the least. And it is something that could affect Vukov's future job possibilities, permanently.
Because when I was traveling to tournaments a couple times a year as media, I heard a lot of stuff and interacted with different people and knew and saw a lot more than the general public. And I wasn't a former player working for a network involved in tennis year-round. At the minimum, she would have heard ahead of time about the WTA investigation into him before it was announced.ponchi101 wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 2:50 pm Serious here, not trying to discount your point.
Why would we assume Shriver knows more than the rest of the general public? She is a commentator, not a journalist, and, as I have said before, the fact that she has claimed she was also subject to abuse cuts both ways. She may be tuned to spotting these events, or she sees them now everywhere, because of trauma.
It is not a trivial accusation, to say the least. And it is something that could affect Vukov's future job possibilities, permanently.
Sofya Tartakova summarised her conversation with Stefano Vukov.
The pair split before the US Open, which was arguably the biggest news leading up to the start of the fourth and final Grand Slam of 2024. This was because Vukov had been working with Rybakina since she was 17 or 18 years old, meaning they had been together for over six years. He was the coach Rybakina herself chose, supported by her family, and their partnership seemed strong and successful. With Vukov, she became the world's third-ranked player and won Wimbledon. However, over the years, there were increasing rumours surrounding their partnership.
In the past year, speculation arose about Vukov's allegedly harsh treatment of Rybakina, including claims of a tough coaching style. Some reports even suggested that players and coaches in the WTA filed a complaint against Vukov, leading to his suspension from the women's tour. We spent a long time investigating these rumours, trying to gather information and reach out to Rybakina herself. The most straightforward approach was to ask the source directly, but every time, Lena and her team declined to comment at all the tournaments last year. By the end of the 2024 season, we had information suggesting that their relationship was indeed complicated and that Lena was going through a significant mental crisis. We discussed this on-air.
On December 30, I had a working meeting with Stefan. First, I want to thank players and coaches who come forward and share their stories because there's often an abundance of rumours and limited reliable information. What did Stefan specifically say? He stated that reports of his suspension from the WTA were false.
These are his words, not mine. He said he and Rybakina maintain good working relations. Stefan mentioned that he would fly to Melbourne on January 4 to support Rybakina, while Goran Ivanisevic would remain her coach. Goran began working with Rybakina during the pre-season. However, it turns out he has limited availability after Australia-only 12 or 15 weeks, which is standard practice. As Anastasia Myskina (co-host of the show) confirmed, a coach and player typically agree on a set number of weeks to work together during the season.
Vukov also shared that his relationship with Rybakina is genuinely warm, describing her as a wonderful person. Regarding last year, he claimed he could explain every one of Lena's losses or absences from tournaments. According to him, her burnout was not caused by any internal conflicts. He emphasized that their relationship is fine, but she was simply overworked-too many tournaments, too much travel, which left her mentally exhausted.
At this point, that's all the information I have. We're waiting for the Australian Open to conclude, as the conversation was intriguing. Naturally, I still have many questions, especially about the origins of these rumours. I was shocked by the reaction when we published the news on December 31. While it wasn't a major story in our country, it caused a massive stir in the global tennis media. The next day, on January 1, Lena confirmed our report that Vukov would re-join her team. I was stunned by the backlash from fans. I even messaged Stefan because I was in disbelief.
People called him a stalker, an abuser, and accused him of breaking her down. He reads all of this, and he asked me about the response in Russian-speaking media. Of course, coverage in our tennis journalism tends to lag behind the global tennis world. However, English-speaking tennis media exploded with this story. I can only advise Stefan to communicate with journalists and share his side of the story because the accusations against him are alarming.
Recently, American media published an investigation claiming there was indeed a temporary suspension of Vukov from the women's tour, citing a supposed violation of some code. This story is frustratingly vague. Back in October, I emailed the WTA asking for clarification on whether Vukov was suspended. When we published the Melbourne flight news on December 31, the uproar reignited, and suddenly, there's talk of an investigation. Yet the WTA never responded to my email. It's a situation similar to the doping rumours surrounding Swiatek and Sinner - everything happens behind closed doors.
To Stefan's credit, he's an open person. He told me I could ask him anything, and he'd answer. I enjoy working with such people. He emphasised showing respect for Lena, as all the speculation about him also affects her. This raises the question: if he is innocent, why hasn't the women's tour defended him? I know Lena is doing everything she can to support him.
Ultimately, she brought him back into her team for a reason. It must work for her. Life off the court is often more complicated than life on it. The nuances are many, but right now, Rybakina wants to work with Vukov. Leave them alone and let them work together-she's not a 13-year-old girl.