ponchi101 wrote: ↑Sat Jan 23, 2021 3:28 am
1. Nobody said that the offense of the person disappears "magically". That is the reason society sets a punishment. The fault has disappeared so little that here we are, discussing an abuse case clearly in everybody's mind almost 3 decades ago.
^ By saying that the person who has committed the offence has a 'clean slate' as soon as their punishment has been served, you are in effect saying that all memory of and reference to their offence should disappear once their punishment has been served, and they should be viewed the same as one who has never committed such an offence. And to that, I say Absolute B.S. - for the reasons I stated - I believe clearly enough - in my previous post.
ponchi101 wrote: ↑Sat Jan 23, 2021 3:28 am
2. But if the person will remain with a scarlet letter, then what is the point of a prison sentence?
^ A prison sentence - or any other punishment - in no way eradicates the offence. No matter what punishment is served, the person will always be the person who committed the offence. The offence, and its effect on other people, will never, ever disappear. Does the rape victim suddenly feel wonderful after her rapist has served his punishment? Of course not! So no-one should pretend that it has disappeared just because a punishment was served. Punishment never eradicates the offence.
ponchi101 wrote: ↑Sat Jan 23, 2021 3:28 amTyson is not running for public office; he is not running an orphanage. He gave an interview. Should this be something he should not be allowed to do? He was a top athlete in his sport. Should he not be allowed to talk about other athletes about sports matters, even if they ask him for that?
^Seriously?? Do you seriously believe that people running for public office, or running an orphanage, etc. are the only circumstances where harm can be done? Hell, Tyson wasn't running an orphanage, or running for public office when he committed rape, assault, and other offences. But he still did those things. As long as there are potential victims - and they need not be orphans -, there exists the potential for someone to harm the potential victims.
And so everyone a person like Tyson comes into contact with deserves - and has every right - to know what terrible things he has done, so that they can decide how to treat him, or to avoid him, etc. Thus, the scarlet letter.
You ask Should Tyson not be allowed to talk about other athletes, other sports, etc?
He can talk about whatever he likes. But he should not be asked to talk about it in a public forum in an environment where he is asked to be viewed with respect, as if he never harmed anyone. He lost that right when he raped and assaulted people. You cannot separate a person from his or her actions. For good or for bad, we should be judged by our actions. It's up to each one of us whether we do good things or do bad things - and if we do bad things, one consequence is that it should never be forgotten or dismissed.
ponchi101 wrote: ↑Sat Jan 23, 2021 3:28 am
3. One major issue (I believe) in our societies is that once somebody goes to prison, that is never forgotten. A large number of these people then begin a cycle of terror: they cannot return to society not because they don't want to, but because they are never allowed. They therefore become a permanent member of crime. How is this beneficial to society?
^ As I said - everyone should have a fair opportunity to become a positive member of society. But their offence should never be forgotten. It is part of who they are - part of their identity.
Just as someone who saved a suicidal person from jumping off a bridge keeps that as part of their identity for the remainder of their life, someone who commits rape, and/or assault, etc. keeps that as part of their identity for the remainder of their life.
ponchi101 wrote: ↑Sat Jan 23, 2021 3:28 am
4. Stating that Tyson has not been a force for good is a bit misleading. A quick internet search for
MIKE TYSON CHARITY yields 890K hits; the first page takes you to
this page, listing the causes and charities he supports. He seems to be as active as many other people. Cause for beatification? No, but it seems he has been involved in some goodwill.
Again - Seriously?? Come on, ponchi, you're too intelligent to be this gullible. Can you say 'Public Relations B.S.'? Tyson knows that he has a bad reputation (well deserved, based on the harm he has done to people) - and so he hired a public relations agency to 'improve his image' through associations with charities, etc. It's the oldest trick in the book - come on!
ponchi101 wrote: ↑Sat Jan 23, 2021 3:28 am
And to state that he is capable of re-offending is something that seems speculative. Sure, he could. Then again, maybe he won't. Looking at all the years he has been out of prison, it seems unlikely he will head there again, any time soon.
^ A tiger rarely changes his stripes. And I have seen enough of Tyson in the past 20 years to be quite confident in saying that he is very capable of re-offending. His nature is violent, he lacks respect (because he was never taught it), he has a hair-trigger temper... all the ingredients are there for him to re-offend. Perhaps he has already, and simply hasn't been caught.
ponchi101 wrote: ↑Sat Jan 23, 2021 3:28 am
5. Compare Tyson to another rapist, Roman Polanski. A man that has spent zero days in prison after raping a minor, evading justice all around the world while not only being able to work in his profession, but being downright celebrated for his craft*. The difference in treatment is blatant, even though I know we will agree that Polanski deserves, at a minimum, some time at the cross-bat hotel.
^ Polanski deserves to be punished and treated in a similar way to Tyson. Actually, both of them deserve more punishment than Tyson has received.
And they deserve zero adoration.
ponchi101 wrote: ↑Sat Jan 23, 2021 3:28 am
You know I am not a person of religious inclinations. And I recently posted about "who we really are". In that, I agreed that you judge people by their worst, not their best. But the point we are articulating is that as opposed to many others, Tyson did spend his time in prison and therefore some differences with other people of ill-pasts exist. And if the scarlet letter will even preclude you from giving an interview, the message being given to any young man that commits one crime is "don't stop". Because from now on, no matter what you do, you are a criminal to society. No matter what good you do.
^ Conversely, what message does it send when a man convicted of rape and assault - among much other violent behaviour - is given the media spotlight in a context of adoration and respect? One could just as easily argue that this gives the message to young males that it's fine to go and 'have fun' raping and assaulting people, because after you're done having that 'fun', you will be respected.
People who have harmed others will always be able to find someone to give them a second chance. This should be done cautiously and with conditions attached - the offender has earned this by way of their harming another person. That should be absolutely non-negotiable.
But being given a second chance, and being given a second chance
inside the spotlight of fame are two entirely different things. The spotlight of fame inherently carries with it a large degree of adoration and respect. Tyson forfeited his opportunity for that adoration and respect the second he decided to rape someone.
He deserves a second chance, like anyone else - with caution and conditions. But he doesn't deserve any spotlight or adoration or respect.